Nostalgia and its relationship to Attachment styles in married couples
Keywords:
النوستالجيا، أنماط التعلق، نمط التعلق الآمن.
Abstract
Can nostalgia be related to attachment styles? In order to know this aims, The researchers chose a sample of married couples at University of Al Qadisiyah, which consisted of (340) married, they are chosen randomly. The researchers used the nostalgia scale, and the attachment styles scale, which are characterized by validity and reliability. The results of the study refers to Married people use nostalgia, they have a secure attachment style, and there are positive relationship between nostalgia and secure attachment style among married.
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- Abu Ghazal, Muawiyah Mahmoud (2000). Theories of human development and their educational applications, Dar Al Masirah, Amman, Jordan.
- Abu Salima, Naglaa Fathi Muhammad (2020). Partner attachment patterns and their relationship to marital bullying among married graduate students, a psychometric clinical study, Journal of the College of Education, Article 5, Volume 10, Issue 4, Autumn 2020, p. 305-376.
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- Lyddon, W. and Sherry, A. (2011). Developmental Personality styles: An attachment theory conceptualization of personality disorders, Journal of Counseling and Development, 79, 405-414.
- Mallory, A.B. et.al .(2018). Remembering the good times: The influence of relationship nostalgia on relationship satisfaction across time. J Marital famther. 2018 Oct; 44(4): 561–574.
- Mikulincer M, & Shaver PR (2012). Adult attachment orientations and relationship processes. Journal of Family Theory & Review, 4(4), 259–274.
- Mikulincer, M.; Shaver, P.R.; Pereg, D. (2003). "Attachment theory and affect regulation: The dynamics, development, and cognitive consequences of attachment-related strategies". Motivation and Emotion. 27 (2): 77–102. doi:10.1023/a:1024515519160. S2CID 18640854.
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- Mills, M. A., & Coleman, P. G. (1994). Nostalgic memories in dementia: A case study. International Journal of Aging and Human Development, 38, 203-219.
- Odeh, Yasmine Ibrahim, (2014). Marital satisfaction among marriedwomen as predicted by some psychological, social demographic factors (unpublished master's thesis), Faculty of Arts, Al-Ahliyya Amman University, Jordan.
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- Simpson, J.A. (1999). Attachment Theory in Modern Evolutionary Perspective.Handbook of Attachment: Theory, Research and Clinical Applications, New York: Guilford Press.
- Sedikides, Constantine, Wildschut , TIM, & Baden , Denise ( 2004 ) : Nostalgia Conceptual Issues and Existential Functions In Jeff Greenberg , Handbook of Experimental Existential psychology 200 – 214 .
- Senchak, M., Leonard, K. E. (1992). Attachment styles and marital adjustment among newlyweds. Journal of Social and Personal relationships, 9, 51-64.
- Talebi, F., Yagubi, A., Mohagegi, H., Abdolmohammadi, K., Torkaman, M., and Malekirad, A. A. (2014): "The relationship between attachment styles and problem-solving skills with marital conflict". Indian Journal of Fundamental and Applied Life Sciences, Vol. 4, No. 3, pp. 544-549 .
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- Wildschut, T., Sedikides, C., Arndt, J., & Routledge, C. (2006). Nostalgia: Content, triggers, functions. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 91, 975-993.
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., A. prof. A. A. S., & ., H. A. A. A.-K. (2021). Nostalgia and its relationship to Attachment styles in married couples. Al-Qadisiyah Journal For Humanities Sciences, 24(3), 105-133. Retrieved from https://journalart.qu.edu.iq/index.php/QJHS/article/view/383
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